{ Joy Boe }

happy holidaze

2011-12-28T15:10:00.000-08:00

Resolutions:

. write more
. read more
. play more
. break in that passport
. use what you have first, before buying/collecting/starting more

Reminders:

"If you go home with somebody, and they don't have books, don't fuck them"
- John Waters

“The easiest thing to be in the world is you. The most difficult thing to be is what other people want you to be. Don't let them put you in that position.”
- Leo Buscaglia

“So, my unsolicited advice to women in the workplace is this. When faced with sexism, or ageism, or lookism, or even really aggressive Buddhism, ask yourself the following question: “Is this person in between me and what I want to do?” If the answer is no, ignore it and move on. Your energy is better used doing your work and outpacing people that way. Then, when you’re in charge, don’t hire the people who were jerky to you.”
- Tina Fey

Kindle, for the fire

2011-11-29T14:04:00.000-08:00

Art Pusher

The 1966 movie Fahrenheit 451 remains high up on my top ten list of must-see movies. Based on the 1951 Ray Bradbury novel of the same name, it's about a guy, named Guy (Montag), who is a firefighter in an isolated society where books have been outlawed by a government fearing an independent-thinking public. It is the duty of firefighters to burn any books on sight or said collections that have been reported by informants. People in this society including Montag's wife are drugged into compliancy and get their information from wall-length television screens. After Montag falls in love with book-hoarding Clarisse, he begins to read confiscated books. It is through this relationship that he begins to question the government's motives behind book-burning. Montag is soon found out, and he must decide whether to return to his job or run away knowing full well the consequences that he could face if captured (IMDb.com)

Part of why I love this film is because it highlights the power of literature to the point of where it is feared. The government, drunk on the delusion of domination finds great delight in eliminating education through the destruction of books. And you know what sounds eerily familiar to this in modern society? KINDLE BOOKS. Ordinary books' bratty and electronic baby brother.

Why fix what isn't broken? I'm sorry but there is something disgusting about flipping through a book with a touch screen and battery. In this case, I'm on the side of the hippie's and openly protest the extinction of paper and pen. The smell of formaldehyde and even the dust doesn't bother me as much as the idea of converting classic literature to an application. The thought of a Kindle being read on the beach gives me the same feeling as having a computer at a picnic. It just ain't right.

More so, the mentality behind must-having is part of the consumerist epidemic that is spreading like wildfire all over iLovers everywhere, in the case which Apple has created a frenzy every April where the newest iPad is released, in between a myriad of other products being disposed. What has failed to be recognized by these patron's is the actual indispensability of these products, and the current and long term consequences of fulfilling that drive to have the latest and greatest gadget.

The most heinous of these being Coltan!
Coltan is the industrial name for columbite- tantalite, which is a dull black metallic mineral that is mined in Australia, Brazil, China and Democratic Republic of Congo. The Tantalum from coltan is used to manufacture electronic capacitors, used in consumer electronics products such as cell phones, computers, dvd players and Kindle's to name a few (if you want to get technical about how coltan is specifically used, read this). The ticket here is the blatant statistic that the majority of these minerals are found in the Eastern part of DRC where there has been a constant civil war and crimes against humanity such as rape (1,100 rapes daily!!!) and brutal killings. It is estimated that over 5.4 million people have lost their lives in this conflict. Is this a coincidence that the only region with the richest coltan deposits is in a war zone? The answer is NO.

Can you even think of 1,000 people you know personally? Now imagine them all victims of violence. Merry Christmas.

Now, I own all of the above mentioned items, and I have actually obtained all of them for free (how I have done this, unconsciously is a miracle, and a bit of a blessing! It just goes to show that even without a deep desire to own them, one is still capable of easily acquiring them). That being true, I take very good care of them and plan on keeping them all. But any chance I have I am going to opt out of unnecessary upgrades or bait and switch marketing schemes to up sell me. I am most definitely never going to own a kindle! I will instead, buy used books and lend them out to friends, or recycle them back into libraries or alleys where they are discovered (gleefully, for free). In addition, I support agencies like VDAY who actively work with abused women to rebuild their communities in the DRC and furthermore help restore a small hope in humanity.

This holiday season I hope you too will consider doing the best thing, and going green.

Join the cult

2011-11-22T08:49:00.000-08:00

Michael Armstead

Tonight only! Thumbprint Gallery is curating San Diego's Fandom Cult Classic Art Show at Basic Kitchen + Bar.
With original artwork based on films like The Big Lebowski, Scarface, The Rocky Horror Picture Show, Pink Flamingo's and my personal favorite: Pee-Wee's Big Adventure.

Artists include:

Jessica Johnson
Craig Hewitt
Jonathan McClintic
Abel Guzman
Mark Richmond
Rod Mojica
William Bucher
MR. DVICE
Mr. Benja
Brian Hebets
Michael Mahaffey
Molly Nicholson
and most importantly, my sister Kristel Boe*

No cover charge, 21+, food and beverage available for purchase at the venue. Music provided by DJ Intraphonic and drdiggs. It starts tonight at 7pm and goes till midnight. Black Nike's are optional.
See you there!

alright, already we'll all float on

2011-11-13T17:19:00.000-08:00

I love Thanksgiving because it's one of the few holidays that doesn't encourage purchasing anything to participate. You just, make something yummy and hang out with friends and family until you are too stuffed to do anything. Then you just watch t.v. (because parents always have cable) and just, hang out. it's nice.
And this year just got a bit nicer... I heard Tim Burton is making a float for the Macy's Thanksgiving Day parade!The balloon is the latest entry into the holiday parade's “Blue Sky Gallery” series, which invites artists to create flying wonders for the procession (previous works made by Jeff Koons, Keith Haring and Murakami to name a few).

This year Burton's floating art is his character called "B. Boy" or "B." for short, who has his own darkly beautiful Burtonian backstory. B. is a Frankenstein-like creature who was created from leftover balloons used at kids' parties at a London children's hospital. Isolated from playing with other children because of his jagged teeth, B. instead spent his days in the basement watching The Red Balloon and dreaming of flight.

Burton says it best, "there's always been something about balloons. You see them deflated and you see them floating. There's something quite tragic and sad and buoyant and happy, all at the same time."

On Thanksgiving Day, B. Boy’s dream will come true, and I'll be watching!

$how me the money

2011-11-10T15:49:00.000-08:00

I'm gonna bitch, but hear me out.
I want to support local art, especially made by people who just love to make it, without the pretension of who will see it or where it is placed. I sincerely enjoy a collection of work labeled "outsider" because I have worked with, and continue in the social field of working with people with different abilities. Furthermore, I have several connections to this particular gallery and feel bad saying anything negative... but hear me out!
Edgeware Gallery is boasting a new opening titled "the Money Show" and I have to admit the theme feels a little, unworthy.

They have accumulated a collection of different artifacts to show, including 'hobo nickles' and roman coins, along with screen printed dollar bills as a tribute to Andy Warhol's famous $ series. Steve Edelson, Edgeware Gallery’s director explains the idea behind the exhibit: “Money is on the minds of many people in the San Diego community and throughout the country. Although it was a challenge to organize this special event, we thought it was timely given the ‘Occupy San Diego’ protests and, of course, the upcoming presidential election.”

Um...

Ever listen to the The Beatles "You never give me your money" song? The genius behind the chorus "...you only give me your funny paper..." is a quote I refer to too often. In this economy, with the election/ protests/ deficit, I am a little suspicious about an "art" show that feels more like a theme park than a community event. I just question how any of these items communicate anything more than a common symbol. Can't we do better than that? What's the money here anyway? There is a man here with a disability who is lucky enough to have the financial support to open a gallery where he can show his work, and what he does is phenomenal. It should be shown. However, his residency at this space is secondary to some trivial idea's that don't encourage expression or individuality, but instead squash it.

In fact at the end of the press release, Edgeware states that 100% of the proceeds from the show benefit Autism research, as "autism now affects nearly 1 in 100 children born today; and unfortunately, the epidemic shows no sign of retreating." What could be more offensive than placing a local artist in an inclusive space where his own community is invited, then display his work under the guise that somehow, he should be fixed, and "unfortunately" that is never going to happen. But give us money so that we can continue to look into it, 'cus somehow, someday there might just be a way we can make everyone the same! Say what, now?!

I can't quote it enough, "diversity is a normal aspect of humanity" (Norman Kunc) and it's unfair to commodify someones talents then disregard their makeup as something less than.

I almost can't stand to attend. I almost want to silently step back and never set foot in there again. And a part of me, a big, hard-to-calm part of me wants to stand out there and loudly protest like the Occupiers downtown. But instead I'm going to go to the opening for one reason. I like Mark Rimland. As a person, as an artist, as a human being I have met and enjoyed. As a neighbor and a friend, I will support him through the highs, lows and moments of complete bullshit in his life. And to me, that's money.

Festivities, from the girl who works too much

2011-10-24T19:25:00.000-07:00

Halloween is a week away... yet if you're like me you're just beginning to feel festive. Here are a bunch of things to do next weekend that are free and fun, before the season's over.

5th Annual Zombie Walk

MAYSTAR's Spellbound Party

Edward Scissorhands at the Dive-in Th eatre
Pearl Hotel

Space 4 Art
open artist studios

Midnight Movies at the Ken Cinema

Silverado Salvage Farm

2011-10-10T19:54:00.000-07:00

Around an hour away in the little town of Rainbow, yes it is actually called that (!) is a a hoarder's dream called Silverado Salvage Farm.

This outdoor thrifting adventure is full of discarded lumber, windows, furniture, knobs, canisters, figurines, light fixtures, street signs, horseshoes, and coffeemakers, all under a beautiful canopy of huge oak's. They push the limits of what one can dream up, producing not one but several old buggies, vintage piano's and chandeliers.

A quick walk through will show you the more time you spend there, the more you will uncover!

Although you will be digging through some major junk (bring wet-naps) their prices will not reward, as I found items to be a bit higher than expected. That being said, they are actually L.A. bound due next summer, and most likely will be anxious for sales in the next few months to help clear out some older inventory. Plus, where else in San Diego can you find basically an entire outdoor kitchen from the 50's?

If you are headed towards Temecula anytime before June 2012, make a stop in Rainbow. Silverado Salvage Farm is right off the 15 North freeway and is worth checking out, especially if you have any wood projects in mind. Their used building materials section is guaranteed to get the creative juices flowing, and the experience alone is worth the gas out there.

An Eve-nt to remember

2011-09-21T22:11:00.000-07:00

Grace Cathedral’s famous Ghiberti doors, labyrinths, and stained glass have provided the backdrop to such guests as Dr. Jane Goodall, the Dalai Lama, Deepak Chopra, Isabel Allende, Carlos Santana, Pharoah Sanders, Archbishop Desmond Tutu, and Sandra Day O’Connor, among others. And next week, Eve Ensler- the Tony Award winning playwright, activist, V-Day Founder and author of The Vagina Monologues.

Eve has chosen San Francisco's most notable church to deliver her first talk since surviving cancer and will speak about her newest work, entitled CongoCancer, scheduled for release in late 2012.

Grace Cathedral is an especially sentimental and special place to host this event, which is (part of) why I am flying out to S.F. to work as a volunteer. The Cathedral is home to a community where the best of Episcopal Christian tradition embraces innovation and open-minded conversation, where inclusion is expected and people of all faiths are welcomed. To simplify, it has both an indoor and outdoor labyrinth, plus Episco-disco nights!

So, if you live in the area, please join me! Tickets are still available and can be purchased here.
Or, if you're into it and want to get involved, go here to learn about hosting your own eve-nt in your city.

Grace 2010

power outage/ power outrage

2011-09-09T11:41:00.000-07:00

The sun is setting and the power is out.

My first instinct is fear. It is quite possibly the remnant of many, many real truth I have begrudgingly viewed and/or my general Katrina guilt. I panic, inside.
I want, like many others, a safe connection- a thread that spans past my selflessness to a primal need I check daily- letting maternal rule- this time, here is is- uncaged by my youth, an unwanted desire to be even younger. Not responsible for solutions, under cover, excused from the truth. Held safely by something bigger that does not disappoint. A mother, not father.

My second reaction is anger. I am frustrated, disappointed by the blinding realization that we as humans have created this. And we as self-serving, me-first kinda folk don't like it when the rug is pulled up from under, and what is left is our silence.

Our earth undoubtedly was here before any of us, therefore it is the "mother" from which we are all born. However, we have not honored it as good children, but have spent million of years overspending, over-indulging, wasting and abusing, justifying our actions with the feelings we try and avoid. Stuffing discomfort, loneliness, and fear away for a more convenient day. These increasing man-made emergencies and natural disasters reveal that our system of operating does in fact have an end; an end that will not be planned or welcomed but big enough to explain itself.

The moments where all technology is detached, the luxuries of a heated bulb, a computer, a microwave or ice box, are stripped away from our daily access are actual archives of weeks, years and decades once spent 'normally'. Now once removed they trigger looting, riots, irrational behaviors and bad driving. They are a catalyst for irresponsibility- yet at one time resembled the basic procedure for survival.

Looking at the city without street lamps, we seem as small as the stars. Naturally I relate to that disposability. I am human and yearn for that protection and illusion of immortality. That being said, I do not however associate with the sense of entitlement that I feel is the root of our degradation of our society's culture today. Too many people are perpetuating more people to absorb this trend of unaccountability- which leaves leaves who to blame?
I blame guns. War. Pesticides. Advertising. But that's another story...
We are evolving (technology-wise) the fastest in history. The downside is we are adapting to our natural environment less and less, in fact we are practically tuning it out completely. Nights of state-wide black outs are indicators of this decline.
We do not have cable- panic!
We do not have light- panic!
We have no T.V.- panic!
We don't have air conditioning- panic!
What we fail to realize is...
We have books. We have candles. We have conversations. We have sunsets and stars and a natural breeze. We may or may not have family, but we surely have neighbors. Friends.
Besides battery-operated distractions, being unplugged also means timelessness. Less wire-driven connectivity but more intuition. A more organic flow, a much softer glow to life. It's nice.

I challenge my instincts to react negatively and think, wait... slow down... shut it down. Look at the blessings of this. This is a good time to connect with your neighbors. If not now, when?
Why not cook all your perishables and share with your street block? Or take it to the homeless.
Finish some of those books you started. Paint your toenails. Glue down some collages.
Or, get out. Don't call, show up! Be hands on.
If not now, when?
Show your face San Diego.

And then like magic, a friend extends a welcome to her new home, "come have blackout beers with us on our patio" she says. And we do.
We carpool and make our way down to Golden Hill. It is an apocalyptic scene, especially in City Heights. People are lined up at the liquor stores, like a candlelit vigil to ice cream, whiskey and anything cold. Holding flashlights to the windows of closed businesses, pulling on doors. 3 hours in and they're already looking to get their own. Everyone looks like freaking zombie's in the street. It's scary, out there.

But we get to Darci's and it is wonderful. She has started to smartly cook up everything in her fridge, and presents a delightful buffet of foods. Shrimp lettuce wraps and walnut chicken linguine, we have beer and (lotsa) wine and coffee ice cream for desert. We listen to her neighbor playing classic piano tunes like a mad man, and eventually invite him over. There are others there too, elvish-musicians and pretty girls who obviously do yoga...

The night was divine. We just talked and ate and talked and ate... We all agree we have much, so much to be thankful for. My heart bleeds for New Orleans, and the East Coast, for the states who much like us are spoiled then overnight ruined by a much larger force (I also bleed for Iraq-Iran-Pakistan, and the D.R.C, for they suffer a different kind of bondage)... but we have so much accessibility here to something greater beyond our own selfish needs. Instead our culture segregates, labels and isolates differences. We fear the unknown and stay emotionally locked up because of it. We do not explore the earth past our own quick glances at it, and we both suffer. We have an unused opportunity to get to know and grow together, to join forces, to collaborate and move forward fearlessly...

There is a concept in Disability Rights called "time banking", which operates off the belief that we all are/have assets and we can all use each other. We can look at an individuals gifts and build social networks based on reciprocity and respect. As community members, nice neighbors, and stakeholders in this society, we can all use the redefinition of "work" beyond a "price". Especially in this current economic crisis, there is no end in sight. We need to build community connections and break stereotypes so when the power goes out, we don't just survive, we thrive.

It takes one night of complete technological- withdraw to fuel this much introspection. Imagine what would happen if everyone, just one day a week acted as the power was out. Look at what we would gain by knowing our 'hood more thoroughly, and the residents more personally. More so, how we would discover our very own selves? To take personal inventory and recognize what gifts we bring to the table, and what we need help with.

We need to start unplugging more often just to tune in, to get re-centered about what really matters beneath the mask of what we have decided it should look like. We may be surprised at what we find.
I just hope it doesn't take another mess to make that happen.

Dog-ear this event

2011-08-27T23:09:00.000-07:00

A second run for the Summer Salon Series

2011-07-11T14:02:00.001-07:00

Hard to believe it has been a year since last summer, when I was asked to participate in the Summer Salon Series at SDMA in Balboa. Josh and I collaborated on a social project we named Prescription Living, which turned out to be a hit, so much so that that we did not get to nearly half of the patient, waiting participants (a situation we still plan on rectifying in the near future).

Artist Lori Lipsman with her Prescription

David White, owner and artist at Agitprop, was asked back to co-curate another series of events happening again at the museum. This year however, has a whole new line up, which has already started and runs through September 1st. Every Thursday night from 5-9pm is a new event with a variety of emerging and already established local artists, offering responses to the civic conversation, "what does a city need?"

How do we build better cities, better communities, and in turn, better citizens?
Through shelter, dialogue, dignity of labor, identity and history, green space, creativity, economy and social consumerism, to start with.

More to consider at Agitprop's new website.

D.I.Y. Summer souvenir's

2011-07-06T11:19:00.000-07:00

"A souvenir (French), for a remembrance or memory), memento, keepsake or token of remembrance is an object a person acquires for the memories the owner associates with it. The term souvenir brings to mind the mass-produced kitch that is the main commodity of souvenir and gift shops in many tourist traps around the world. But a souvenir can be any object that can be collected or purchased and transported home by the traveler. The object itself has no real significance other than the psychological connection the possessor has with the object as a symbol of past experience. Without the owner's input, the object's meaning is invisible and cannot be articulated"

Unless that souvenir is thoughtful, and unique, and (hopefully) free! Like the project I am working on with shells I just collected on vacation in Cape Hatteras.

So many beautiful shells washed up during low tide, it became addicting to scavenge the beach for gems everyday. Or sometimes twice... The Atlantic, with it's coarse sand, sea oat covered dunes, and dreamy skies made for a completely different "beach" experience for me and I want to preserve it!

Here is a little Do it Yourself project that makes a nice little memento for summer trips, and it nearly free. It just requires Ziploc bags, glass jars and a big flat space to work on.

The first step is the most fun... just collect! Either stick to a few themes, for instance a certain color ( in this case I was attracted to the black shells), or go for anything interesting. Use Ziploc bags to collect sand or gravel in an air-tight (airplane-safe) way.

Next, probably when you get home, wash everything to get the sea critters off. I enjoy the scent of the sea so I just lighted dusted off what I needed to.

Then, organize the piles of finds into categories so it is easier to put together. This is especially important if you are making several jars, or have collected for different people. You can group items together by a random mix, or by species, color, etc. This time, I am including a bit of the sea gravel, sand, and selections of special shells in each. I bought a 4 pack of small mason jars at Ace Hardware for around 5 bucks, plus found a few others at a thrift store.

Lastly, label the jar with the location of where it was collected. And boom! Nice little package for your special someone.

Happy Egyptian New Year!

2011-06-21T12:13:00.000-07:00

The Summer Solstice, otherwise known as the longest day of the year, is here (and luckily the weather is cooperating!) And since I'm a geek I feel it is my duty to spread some necessary knowledge about it.

Solstices occur twice a year, when the tilt of the Earth's axis is oriented directly towards or away from the Sun, causing the Sun to reach its northernmost and southernmost extremes. The name is derived from the Latin sol (sun) and sistere (to stand still), because at the solstices the Sun's apparent movement north or south comes to a standstill.

The term solstice can also be used in a wider sense, as the date (day) that such a passage happens. The solstices, together with the equinoxes, are connected with the seasons. In many cultures, solstices and equinoxes traditionally determine the midpoint of the seasons, which can be seen in the celebrations called midsummer and midwinter.

In Ancient Egypt, summer solstice was the most important day of the year. The sun was at its highest and the Nile River was beginning to rise. Special ceremonies were held to honor the Goddess Isis, since Egyptians believed that Isis was mourning for her dead husband Osiris, and that her tears made the Nile rise and well over. Accurately predicting the floods was of such vital importance that the appearance of the Sirius Constellation, (which occurs around the time of the summer solstice), was recognized as the beginning of the Egyptian New Year.

So, happy New Year! Since you have ample sunlight today, why not go shopping? Inventory has been updated at Lost & Found, inside Pat's. Although we don't have Amulets, we do have several picnic baskets, wicker chairs, and ladies espadrille and wedge shoes, perfect for the summer (with the recent cooperation of this weather). We also have a few mid-century coffee tables still up for grabs, night stands, women and men's vintage clothing, and much more!

Lovin' the Hut

2011-06-13T13:29:00.000-07:00

It's official, I'm in love with Loving Hut! What started as an occasional treat has bred into a full blown craving that only their Coco Tofu can satisfy. Now, I'm a meat eater (they don't need to know that) but I like to consider myself more of a Flexitarian because I try to limit my intake and actually prefer veggies over beef any day. What has sadly held me back, (and I know this is terrible, but it's the truth), is my laziness. With a schedule like mine it is hard to find time to cook meals everyday. Plus, when you live alone, fresh veggies go bad so quickly. So, sometimes it is more convenient to eat on the go, which as everyone knows is not easy on the belly though. Secondly, organic food is expensive and hard to find. There are maybe, 3 vegetarian "fast food" places in San Diego. None of which are actually "fast."

So, imagine my delight when I stumbled upon the Loving Hut. Although I am not a professional food critic, nor do I have an educated palate, it is definitely blog-worthy. For these reasons:

1. They take the guilt right out of eating, with an all vegan menu that is varied and awesome. No animals harmed in making anything, plus no lack of flavor either. Their vision is that "all beings could live in peace, love and harmony with each other and the planet." That's easy to swallow. Apparently this concept was dreamed up by this lady, the Supreme Master of amazing food (hehe). She apparently even has her own t.v channel, wowza.

This is a kinda ridiculous photo for a Master to use , don't you think? A plant-based diet is noble indeed, but a cell phone shot?

2. They have mastered cooking tofu, which is rarely done right. Their cubes are firm and juicy, chewy without being over-done or mushy. They are seasoned with delicious spices like ginger and cilantro. Soy chicken? They have that too. These summer rolls are a favorite appetizer of mine, but are big enough to be a meal and/or share.

3. They are super cheap! A 3 course meal for my sister and myself cost around $30.00. Seriously. Their entrees are around $6-7 for a large, and only $5 for a medium size.
4. Iced cappuccino's. If only Starbucks could get this right. The Loving Hut does.

Another yummy drink they whip up (not my photo)

5. Their service is delightful. The genuinely nicest people work there, and get your meal out so quick you wonder if they mixed it up with someone else's before you. Today I went on my lunch break (I know, I'm addicted!) and they gave me a free recycled bag and plastic containers to re-use. Probably just because they can tell I'm gonna use it and tell everyone about them! (Done and done, by the way.)

(I don't know this dude, but he looks nice. And fast)

The only thing I can say could be improved, which is actually a selfish wish, is their hours. The San Diego location close to Park ave on El Cajon is open morning-ish till 2pm, then closes till 5 then reopens till 9pm. I believe they are closed on Sunday's. It's not bad, it's just when you've got your heart set on it and you take a later lunch, it sucks.

So, if I haven't convinced you to try it yet, you're never going to! I really do agree that the Loving Hut is exactly what they advertise: "a beacon of light for an alternative way of living. It’s healthier, it’s compassionate, it’s peaceful and it’s the only way to a sustainable planet."

Word to your mother.

What the what?!

2011-06-06T10:14:00.000-07:00

JUNE and my Amazon purchases have arrived! I have around two more weeks till vacation and am trying to save Bossypants for my beach read, but Tina Fey has been seducing me a little each day with those big, manly hands... Can't wait to dig in! Both to the sand and the book.

In the meantime, it seems like the weather has mellowed out and summer is on it's way in. Which means, bikini shopping. ugh. On the bound for a cute 'kini if anyone can help a sister out and suggest a place to find something, um, supportive and cute. Too bad they're not made like this anymore...

Online ordering of a suit (with my kind of figure) is a no-go, so I am relying on local resources. Perhaps a synchronized sun dance will land the perfect fit, like the falling bottle in The God's must be Crazy. Wish me luck!

evento de pedo

2011-05-05T20:29:00.000-07:00

Featuring:
A fraternity of USD students. And one or two things by me.

"she likes things"

2011-04-11T13:22:00.000-07:00

The first post of a new series...

One of my favorite free time activities is rooting through people's stuff, not in a creepy way but mostly just for the fun of the hunt, and the kind of discards that can be found. Now, I have an inside lead on the latest open houses around town, thanks to my friend and fellow collector Sara Mullert, with her new business launch and journey in entrepreneurship. Heirloom Estate Liquidations offers help clearing out homes quickly and with respect for your possessions, honoring your wishes with integrity and dependability. It states that on her business card, but seriously she is very meticulous and knowledgeable about valuables. Congratulations Sara!

Also, for the hoarders out there (I say this with love, it takes one to know one) stay tuned for updates on estate sales throughout San Diego County. Sara is hosting one this weekend in fact, on Saturday and Sunday April 16th-17th from 9am till 2pm. Bring cash!

6225 Viewpoint Dr.
San Diego, CA. 92139
Map

*For service consultations, Sara can be reached at 619-944-5398

On a side note, kinda want to start a dumpster dive coalition... where my freegan's at? Portland, ya hear me?

S L I D E P R O J E C T O R

2011-04-05T14:13:00.000-07:00

This Saturday night from 6-9pm at Agitprop Space

Seven artists use 35mm side projectors. Fetish, memorial, utility, folk and spook, this exhibition is an exploration into the collective interest of this popular viewing device.

Participating artists: Ela Boyd, Micki Davis, Anna Chiaretta Lavatelli, Sheryl Oring, Katrin Pesch, Vabianna Santos & Joe Yorty

Wretches & Jabberers

2011-04-04T14:00:00.000-07:00

I saw the most liberating documentary this weekend. In honor of Autism Awareness month, Wretches & Jabberers was showing one day only at AMC. The story of two men with Autism who travel the world giving advice/solace/Polaroids to those who also use "abnormal" communication to speak. Larry and Tracey aren't "angels" but they're definitely doing God's work, whoever (s)he may be, spreading awareness that diversity is a normal aspect of humanity, and that it should be celebrated and respected.

On a side note, I used my momentum from the film to order a long awaited for gift to myself, Fugifilm's latest Polaroid camera the Instax 210. Now, find a way to travel the world!

Bells in a Bar

2011-03-23T12:46:00.000-07:00

Last Friday, magic happened at Bluefoot. A gang by the name Kembang Sunda captivated a curious crowd by performing traditional music from West Java, Indonesia in the crowded bar. Kembang Sunda is a Sundanese gamelan degung ensemble directed by Amy Hacker, which has been performing in San Diego since 2007.

My video was shot with whisky vision, so here is a better one off their website...

Add them on Facebook to see their next performance. It is truly a healing experience!

Moutarde

2011-03-10T11:08:00.000-08:00

Mustard is yummy on just about everything...

March at Lost & Found

2011-03-07T14:37:00.000-08:00

March is here already, and so is a bunch of cool new stuff at Lost & Found, including our new personalized salvage sign from my mom's old work. Take a look...

Unfortunately for you, the rosette rug is not for sale, it was my Grandma's. Sorry.

Sweet set of smoking chairs, with buttoned upholstery backs, which you can kinda see in the 2nd photo (below)

Also visible: the 60's Lucite end table and Industrial sewing table

Charming bric-a-brac:
Vintage Japanese Fondue set/ Acacia wood bowl
Bachelor bar set that includes 2 glasses and gold serving tray/ Orange knit purse

Adorable vintage nightstand with hand carved handles /Faux fruit centerpiece/ Set of 2 blue upholstered Mahogany chairs

Vintage sticks (crates not for sale)/ Collapsible green chair/ Wood floral wall decor

Antique art deco coffee table/ Atlas/ Brass candle sticks with candles/ Vintage clothing

And more, in person... go see for yourself. Pat's is open everyday 10-6pm.

This is not Ikea (dot com)

2011-02-15T15:46:00.001-08:00

A great recommendation from a friend lead me to thisisnotikea.com, an awesome website that is like IKEA but way, way better... almost like IKEA's older, more cultured step sister?!

Reasons why it rules:

First off, it's also a store in L.A., called Tini which I'm dying to shop at!
Secondly, it is a vast selection of home decor items that are gently used, retro, mid-century, eclectic, industrial, vintage, modern... basically all the best. What I really like is how user friendly the website is, with items categorized not only by department, but by color, room, and/or style.

Like any great thing, with success comes a higher demand, and therefore higher prices. Some of the bric-a-brac is listed as a higher ticket than what I would dish out for say, an ashtray, at the same time some of the larger pieces are reasonable considering their condition, for instance this set of pretty dressers for $195 each.

Or these cute danish chairs for $150 a pop

They also offer interior design services, at a pretty penny I am sure. Not to piggyback someone else's success, but I am glad I have found a resource that is much like the aesthetic I like to design with, and within the same vein as my interests as well. That being said, I am still down for small side jobs if anyone needs a little assistance, I offer a free one hour color consultation which includes a basic needs assessment for the room of your choice. Just email me and I'd be happy to help!

joyboe@hotmail.com

Lost & Found: February Shopping Guide

2011-02-08T14:34:00.000-08:00

It's a new month, and a new opportunity to find something at Lost & Found. We have just filled the space with tons of great stuff, so stop on buy before it's all snatched up! Here's some of my favorites:

High back teak wood chair, with new green and teal cotton blend tweed upholstery
$40.00

Maple side table in great shape $40.00

Vintage Globe $30.00
Abe Bust $10.00
Glass ashtray $5.00
Wood stool $20.00

Bamboo shell table $20.00

Set of 4 wood Japanese bowls $20.00
White Airplane Lamp $10.00
Set of 2 Japanese Watermelon Mugs $6.00

Set of 2 High Back dining chairs with new olive green upholstery
$60.00

Shop with us, and go home happy!

Lost & Found is located directly inside Pat's Corner
3409 30th St
(between Upas St & Myrtle Ave)
San Diego, CA 92104

The Shadow of Vivian Maier

2011-02-02T10:42:00.001-08:00

Vivian Maier's images conjure many feelings, from loneliness and isolation to delight in the small things seen everyday. Although not much is known about the woman who never claimed to be an artist, or a famous one at least, ingrained in her composition is the shadow of a person with deep understanding of human emotions. Within the busy city life of Chicago she managed to capture moments most people sweep past, with a sad elegance and almost thirst for warmth.

Looking through her photos is like floating through a crowd, her ghostly presence is mostly recognized by children who are also aching for attention, and is often lost to those who have bigger, more important things to tend to.

It is said she mostly wore men's clothing and preferred to keep to herself (even at the photo stores where she purchased film regularly) but her photograph's contain a consistent femininity and sense of interconnectivity, an attention to detail only an advocate for style could appreciate. But then again, it was the 60's and in my opinion everything looked aesthetically better back then!

She also flawlessly captured the changing political times of the mid-century through it's toll on the streets, whether through the remnant of graffiti and posters, or the faces of the homeless.

Vivian Maier stands out as real artist to me for many reasons. Her time on the streets successfully portray many important views of community and humanity in general, yet are timelessly well framed. Her lack of desire to be recognized for her work shows a natural talent that simply went unnoticed, like most of her life. It's sad to me that she disregarded her passion towards the end of her life, and that many rolls of film found in antique stores weren't even developed. There is some redemption that by chance they fell into the hands of someone who appreciates them, and has passed on her legacy to build the growing fan base that in jut a year has impacted so many people.

R.I.P. Miss Maier, February 1st 1926 - April 21, 2009.

The dawn of a new day for Sunset Magazine

2011-01-25T12:31:00.000-08:00

Sunset's article: Decorating with family finds

Usually when I think of Sunset Magazine, I recall moments sitting in a doctors or dentist office with no other choices beyond Sports Illustrated and/or Women's Home Journal to pass the time. But something funny has happened, either I am aging (obviously getting closer to the 30's) or they have really spent some time with Cher from Clueless and completed a success make over. Either way, I kinda love them now!

Ever since I randomly started receiving them in the mail about 6 months ago, I have been surprised by the amount of articles and tips I have discovered, and their focus on Western living is saturated by local tidbits from San Diego and San Francisco all the way up to Portland and Seattle. They also give great idea's for Eco-friendly decorating, like this outdoor planter/bench.

In this month's issue, Pigment's new Plant Lab terrarium bar and the Pearl Hotel is mentioned, along with this awesome zero-waste home in Northern California.

I also love that they have recipes that even a working woman can keep up with, like this black bean soup with avocado and cucumber... plus, amazing seasonal cocktails for picnics and parties are always appreciated.

So, if you're burned out by Dwell (don't get me wrong I love them but they feel so inaccessible to the average person's budget) and/or if looking for a resource you can use for weekend trips, new restaurants up the coast, or decorating how-to's, I would give Sunset a try. You might find it's way cooler than it used to be!

Lost & Found

2011-01-18T11:13:00.000-08:00

Now open inside Pat's in North Park, Lost & Found! We are the first storefront to the right of the entrance, about a 10 by ten area of great stuff.

A collection of vintage apparel, up-cycled furniture and unique art by local artists. We specialize in mid-century home decor and believe that a nest is best made by using things that are low-impact and re-usable. We have found charm in these items that were once discarded, yet aim to keep their cost affordable to the average person.

Sales are run through Pat's register, so please make sure you take the tag to the desk.

Also, if you are on the hunt for something specific, you can email me and I will personally shop for you. How' that for service?!

Airplane Lamp $5.00/ Feminist Books $1.00 each/ Vintage t.v. tray $10.00
One of a kind framed collages by Josh Bellfy $50.00
(he also does commissioned work if you have a specific piece you want)

Vintage pink ashtray and set of wood bowls, $10.00 each

Imitation Wasily Chair $30.00/ Green Tweed Pillow $7.00/ Vintage Backgammon set $10.00

Complete Picnic Set $40.00/ 50's Straw Hat $10.00/ Orange Japanese Teapot $8.00

Set of 2 Mid-century chairs $40.00/ Accent Table $50.00/ Leather Hat $10.00

Atlas $10.00/ Brass Lamp $25.00/ Set of 2 brass candle holders $15.00

An assortment of Women's and Men's clothing: ties, handbag's, cardigan's, hats and jeans.

Inventory is always changing so what is there one day may be gone the next! The possibilities are endless... so stop by today and see what you can find!

Waddie Welcome

2011-01-13T10:43:00.000-08:00

In celebration of Martin Luther King Jr. day this upcoming Monday, Life Works is hosting a community event at their new location on Adam's ave in Normal Heights. It's a southern style party so bring a dessert to share! From the Waddie Welcome website here is some background on the topic...

Born on the 4th of July, 1914 in Savannah, GA with a disability and placed in a nursing home far from his community, Waddie Welcome was an unlikely public figure. His deep desire for freedom drew many friends into his life in ways that not only liberated him from institutionalization but realized Dr King’s vision of the Beloved Community.

WADDIE WELCOME & THE BELOVED COMMUNITY tells the story of friendships that transcended divisions of disability, race, and income & created powerful new possibilities in a whole community. Reflecting on the story of Mr Welcome & his friends is an ideal part of the celebration of Martin Luther King day.

MLK Day World Wide Reading

Last year, Anne Mitchell & her friends discovered that the book that Tom Kohler & Susan Earl have written, which can be read in about 45 minutes, forms the foundation for a World Cafe Conversation, a powerful way for groups to have a conversation that matters about the meaning this story carries. Anne & Tom have joined with Inclusion Press to make it possible for you to host your friends, family, neighbors, association members, congregation members, book club members, classmates, & fellow citizens to read WADDIE WELCOME & THE BELOVED COMMUNITY and have a World Cafe Conversation about its meaning for you.

So, make your mama proud and come meet your neighbors!

Create and Relate

2011-01-10T18:12:00.001-08:00

I'm openly biased (only in a way that could overtly encourage you) but Josh Bellfy, (my favorite local artist) has an opportunity to start something of his own production right here in San Diego. Edgeware Gallery in Kensington is allowing him use of the space (he basically built) to instruct weekly art classes on the weekends. Starting last Saturday actually, he is offering creative classes that are open to the public, integrated as far as inviting people of all walks of life and age range, and is quite affordable as well. Some of the project include mask making, collages, and learning how to draw to scale.

I'm plugging participation of this because I feel it's a great way to take the new year by it's grimy horns and do something "artistic" for fun. If you are a student and looking for some resources, or a local resident who wants to get out on the weekend, or a person with a disability who wants to meet people... Create Relate classes are a good start. If nothing else it provides a space for one on one instruction for your child/children while you get a mani/pedi. Plus, $25 for 3 hours with basic materials covered is a great deal!

The background of the project, and everything else you need to know, and more is on CreateRelate.org so check it out. Hope to see you there!

Examples of Bellfy's personal collages

Make your own (Joy) Boe's

2010-12-22T13:10:00.000-08:00

For years women in Kenya have been recycling old magazines and newspapers into jewelry, like these paper necklaces from World Buyers. I love this for several reasons, their resourcefulness is not only Eco-friendly by cutting down on the amount of trash, but they make a living by being creative, often times becoming the breadwinner for their families.
I found a similar neat-o idea on Talk Crafty To Me for making your own gift wrap out of magazines this holiday season, or year 'round. All you need is some decorative paper materials like newspapers and/or magazines, old map's, or sheet music and double sided tape. You can also use fabric and substitute the tape for hot glue or colored staples.

Start by cutting a page lengthwise into nine 3/4-inch-thick strips of heights shown: Three at 11 inches, three at 10 inches, two at 9 inches, and one at 3 1/2 inches.

Twist each strip to form loops at both ends. Make a circle out of the smallest.

Secure the ends with a piece of double-sided tape.

Layer and stick, starting with the longest strips. End with the circle in the center and oh joy, you're done.

The Beat Dazzler

2010-12-18T18:27:00.000-08:00

The last day of my handmakin' marathon was spent gemmin' up a sweater for my holiday party! I guess that counts as a craft... (Leslie & the Ly's have certainly made a following out of their dedication to the collection). I can't think of a better way to kick off my week long stay-cation than a bedazzled bargain sweater and a brand new bottle of Maker's Mark. Cheers m'dears!

My hands made this for you... Six

2010-12-16T16:07:00.000-08:00

Day 6: Candles

You've got two options here, either mix and pour wax into your own containers, which can be almost anything, or just upgrade some store bought pillars with a festive approach. Both are fairly simple and inexpensive, and make nice gifts (the useful kind when the power goes out.)

Handmade Wax:

Re-using old candles that burned incorrectly and/or left a lot of unused goods on the sides when the wick went out, you save a lot of money and use something that would otherwise be trash. All you need is an old pot that you don't plan on using again (if you don't have one, get it at a thrift store for a few bucks), and a package of new wicks, found at any craft supply store. The size of the containers you want to use will determine the size of the wicks needed, so you'll need to have that figured out beforehand. If you are making votives, you can also just use tea light sized candles by removing the metal bottom and just using the wick and wax.

The containers can be just about be anything, Martha Stewart uses tea cups, but I've seen shells, coconuts, acorns, etc. Even if you have purchased a candle in a decorative glass container, you can reuse it placing the container in the freezer until it's frozen. Then use a butter knife to wedge the wax out, it should just pop out evenly. If needed you can wash the glass out, but this method is way easier than trying to scrape wax!

Once you have the materials, you will want to break up the used candles into smaller pieces which will be easier to melt. Put into the pot and simmer on low to medium heat until blended, slowly stirring the whole time. One thing to consider when using a variety of different colored waxes, when blended together it will turn into a blackish color no matter what. If you are blending different whites together the mix usually turns out a slightly darker, almost beige color. You can also add oil to the mix to give it a new scent, but I've noticed often times the original flavors when mixed together come out smelling great naturally.

Next, place the wick with the metal anchor at the bottom of the container. You will need to hold the wick upright as you slowly pour the mix in. You can also affix a flattened paperclip to the top of the container to hold the wick if it's easier. Allow the wax to dry and harden with about an inch of the wick sticking out. You can also decorate the wax with glitter or flower petals while it's still wet for a little sparkle.

For decorative pillars:Unscented candles are usually less expensive and come in basic colors. For the holidays you can upgrade their look by attaching cinnamon sticks to their exterior. Just use floral shears to cut the sticks to the height of the candle (works best with a candle at least 3 inches in diameter) and attach to the sides with a hot glue gun. Make sure the first one is securely on there before adding the next, which will go right up next to it. I think it looks best with just basic white candles, but brown or beige would look nice too. Make three at various sizes for a rustic table centerpiece, or give individually with a coaster to protect the surface it will be burning on.

My hands made this for you... Cinq

2010-12-15T14:37:00.001-08:00

Day 5: Magnet Sets

So easy, so cute. Magnets make great gifts for someone who has recently moved or bought a new home, or just to dress up a dull fridge. Literally, you need two things, a hot glue gun and small objects like buttons or old jewelry. These letters came off an old sign but I couldn't throw them away, I'm going to make them into an alphabet set.

Think outside the box (literally), make a set out of a person's favorite beer caps or wine corks for your favorite Wino. I've been collecting these all year and can easily use them by hot gluing a round magnet to the tip.

Package them in a recycled tin and you've got yourself a gift in seriously, no time.

This girl knows what I'm talkin' about... and has other cute/kitchy idea's too. Those are her magnet boards made with discarded vintage jewelry. The possibilities are endless!

My hands made this for you... Quatre

2010-12-14T12:15:00.000-08:00

Day 4 : Homemade Bath Salts

Using a few basic ingredients, these easy to make soaking mixes smell wonderful and feels nice too. You can create your own label for them and/or customize the scent to fit the recipient. Save the next jelly jar you empty and you have yourself a nice glass container to put it in, (just make sure you soak it in hot water and bleach beforehand to disinfect it and get rid of the lingering food scent). Or, Ace Hardware sells a 4 pack of mason jars for only $5.00.

Ingredients:

- Around 4 cups of sea salt, Epsom or kosher salt
- Aromatic bath oils or essential oils
- Dried fragrant plants, like lavender buds or wildflowers
- Bowl for mixing
- Glass containers like recycled bottles, mason jars, etc.
- Mini spoon or scoop (optional)

Recipe:

- Pour the salts together
- Add several drops of the oil then mix
- Throw in a few dried flower petals then mix again
- Pour mix into glass jar, or divide into several smaller containers if you are making several batches

Potions:

Suggestions for masculine scents: Peppermint, Eucalyptus, Clove, Frankincense or Patchouli

For an invigorating bath, use citrus or lemongrass. I actually zested fresh lemon peel into my mix which uses up a lemon on it's last leg, and adds an extra punch of scent

For a nice detox concoction, mix Tea Tree and Orange Peel

For a relaxing/ night time soak use Lavender and Ylang Ylang

Lastly, wrap it Raffia!

My hands made this for you... Trois

2010-12-13T23:11:00.000-08:00

Day 3: Photo books

Ever wonder about those photos your friends take throughout the year? You know some shutterbug had a camera at your party, but you never got to see the images? I bet they wonder about yours too. A neat way to wrap up some of your favorite memories or share the one's you missed is by creating a photo book of some of the standouts, or a more artful one of just some of your personal favorites.

This one is made from leftover pieces of images, literally creating a book of scraps.

If you're looking for a simpler solution, you can always just burn a disc of the pictures and make a cover for the CD case. For example, label it 2010 and use photos from throughout the year, or come up with a theme and use photos that match. Someone bought a new home, or had a baby... or maybe a funny one with all the snapshots of your drunk buddies. You can also physically print them out at a local photo supply store/CVS/ Target/and put them into a purchased book. Grimm on Etsy.com has quality handmade albums that you can easily customize yourself, he does all the hard work and you get all the credit, Boom!

Either way, everyone likes photos yet not everyone has the time or money to take them themselves. This is the gift that lasts for years, so make it for someone special.

My hands made this for you... Day 2 (Deux)

2010-12-12T17:22:00.000-08:00

Day 2: The hardest button to button

For this little craft you will be making flower shaped "button buttons" and will basically need three items: a hot glue gun (and glue sticks), clothing buttons, and pin fastener's. You can go to Michael's and get all 3 in one place, or if you're like me, you may already have a whole bunch of buttons you have saved from garments or somehow acquired (in my home, buttons are like dust bunnies, they seem to just appear.) Also, most thrift shops or fabric stores sell bulk bags of miscellaneous buttons. Those are the most fun because you never know what gems you may find for such a cheap deal!

Start by selecting a few larger standout buttons, that will act as the "pollen" for the flowers. It's better to use a larger sized middle button, then smaller buttons for the "petals". If you have a special button that is vintage or extra decorative, use that as the center and more ordinary supplies for the sides. The petals don't necessarily have to be all the same color, they could also alternate colors. You can also layer buttons to give it a more embellished effect.

Glue each petal slightly at the underside of the center button, so that when it's worn they will poke out from underneath. It is easiest to lay the center button face down and glue everything in the same direction. Before it's dry you can turn it right side up to make any necessary adjustments before it's stuck. The last step is the glue the pin fastener to the back of the "button button", flat side down. Make sure if you have created something that has a certain up or down side, that you line up the fastener accordingly before gluing.

This method can be altered depending on what materials you have and who you're making them for. If you have a bunch of larger sized buttons or a lot of vintage pieces, you can just make a nice layered brooch that is not a flower. Or, for kids, use brighter materials like this mom did below.

You can also incorporate cut out pieces of felt and/or fabric to make an even larger statement like this chick from London. In this case, stitch the fabric or felt together with the button before gluing the pin onto the back.

Whatever you chose to do, the end result is a nice variety of unique and cheap brooches to give to the women or children in your life. They're perfect for decorating a tote bag, holding a scarf in place, or even on packages for a handmade sentiment.

Buttons made by SMSC clients at Sophie's Gallery

My hands made this for you... Day 1 (Un)

2010-12-11T16:46:00.000-08:00

The best things in life are free, or handmade at least. This holiday season why not do everyone a favor and make a gift instead of giving the stress of a mall shopping situation all wrapped up in a bow. That's bad energy, and no one wants that!

I am going to give you 7 idea's for homemade gifts this week, one a day, starting today. Anyone can do these, give it a shot.

Day 1 : Terrariums

The latest trend in home decor, great for men and women, co-workers and family members. Use drought tolerant plants such as succulents or cacti for a no-kill guaranteed gift that will make Mother Earth smile too. For complete instructions, click here. I made some awhile back that turned out pretty nice, but you can always alter the materials to fit your specific needs/likenesses. Don't forget to consider re-using glass bottles, or shopping at thrift stores for your container, you'll be surprised at how many things you can find once you've set your mind to it.

These are lovely too...

Necklaces by Erica Weiner

More of the green stuff at Botany Factory

Hello, tinsel-town

2010-12-09T12:53:00.000-08:00

Here I am hard at work

The "holiday spirit" has finally attacked me.
After merchandising 3 Gallery/ Gift shops with a total of 7 artificial tree's all by myself (thankyouverymuch) I can justifiably say I wasn't even going to think about doing my own home.
But, in a random twist of fate I am feeling more hopeful for the New Year and what lies within it for me. This, along with the Winter Solstice and a potential gem sweater party, things are lookin' up! I still have some finishing touches at home, but in the meantime am enjoying the warm little glow of it while it lasts.

I am pleased with the results

Quietwriters, make some noise

2010-12-07T15:04:00.000-08:00

This one is untitled

Lorsque je laisse mon clous croissent où les pointes blanches montrer
Je me sens plus agressif
ressemblant à un lion
queue-gator
creuser mes griffes dans le volant
mes crayons
votre dos.
l'autre soir j'ai rêvé que j'étais une panthère
bourdonnement grâce à un espace ouvert
mes pattes devant moi, l'herbe de préhension.
propulsée vers l'avant avec la vitesse d'un animal vicieux
ne pas de chasse, mais en jouer
mes mains étaient humanoïdes
mais mon corps était plus facile de déplacer
plus près du sol
une machine léger
de meurtre et de plaisir

Je coupe enfin mes griffes.
Je me sens plus domestique
comme mes mots ne peuvent pas déplacer vous autant
ma nature sauvage
suspendu momentanément
dans un souci de premières impressions.

Noise

Hostess with the Mostess

2010-12-01T22:04:00.000-08:00

This over consumption is getting harder to swallow

Canisters, yes we can!

2010-11-30T13:25:00.001-08:00

"Time is a container" says Julia Morgenstern, the author and host of Time Management from the Inside Out. How you use it, is another thing.

Day 1 on this low impact/no spending purge has so far been tricky. I feel that small temptation to call it off, not take it seriously, to cheat, already! Day 1! Maybe it's the concrete walls at work chilling me to the bone, making me crave a fresh hot one (especially when I'm right next door to real, good, coffee). Maybe it is the failure in my thermos that cooled, too quickly, the lack of a microwave and my justification to turn it around, to win by getting what I want. For two dollars. But it is beyond that, it is the principal, the fixin' I am trying to avoid.
And I can do it (Fraggle Rock taught me that: "yes I can, yes I can, yes I really, really can...")

The container of my life is full, I have everything I need at this moment. In fact, more. I am healthy, I am fed, I have work and tools and a family and relationships. I have more cats than I should. If I look at my time critically I can see how my efficiency has created these gaps where I reward myself by slacking off. However, I also acknowledge how "slacking off" means putting myself last, diverting my needs for another, not being creative but resting on the notion that I work hard, and have nothing left at the end of the day.

Yet, Julia Morgenstern has a plan, and she's right. There's a way to get back on track:

The 4 D's (if you have more than you can manage) and want to get organized

1. Delete the stuff you know is not really that important
2. Delay re-schedule things that are not essential to today
3. Diminish make it get done, easier
4. Delegate tasks to other people, relinquish control!

She also uses the analogy that a closet is much like a life, which has really helped me understand how I can improve certain area's that are overcrowded and/or underused. Making room for the items you love and want to keep, ridding yourself of the stuff you have out of obligation, and organizing the things you keep as a project. By compartmentalizing your life/closet you will feel more motivated in general.

Sort- group similar items together to see what you're working with
Purge- let go of the unnecessary stuff
Assign a home- make a place for it that fits
Containerize- batch the keepers together
Equalize- put it back where it belongs, in balance

The end result of that SPACE is manageable, almost easy. Wouldn't that feel awesome if that feeling encompassed all aspects in your life, not just a closet?

She also has a genius system of learning how to identify what is actually important and worth keeping, by developing a Big Picture View and Time Map... but I won't get into that. You have to just watch her PBS special and take notes yourself!

So, tonight instead of going out or Christmas shopping I am going to stay in and organize my wardrobe! My reward for that is having a bag full of discards for friends to go through, items to donate to charity, and most importantly, a new stress-free area to welcome me each day. Without spending a dime I will double the size of what I have to work with, and get a start on creating a life that nurtures me. One slipdress at a time, building with a song... the Doozer way.

(On a side note, shipping container homes are awesome! )

Image from WebUrbanist

No Impact Man sends shockwaves

2010-11-29T14:23:00.000-08:00

So, I recently gave up my cable connection at home and have been filling the void with stacks of (free) movies from the Central Library each week, (not to mention daily abuse of Netflix). In my newest hunt I discovered No Impact Man, a documentary from 2009 about one man's quest to live off the grid for a whole year.
At first I was unsure about the content, as it had the ability to be somewhat contrived and/or on the flip side, degrading to those who actually live strict environmentally conscious lifestyles, without documentaries or media coverage. Especially when I read that his wife, a big-wig fashion addict and Starbucks slave was begrudgingly going along with it (scenes from The Devil wears Prada came to mind). However, a few minutes into it and I was hooked.

I have to start by saying that I usually consider myself a low to mid-grade environmentalist. I recycle everything, use fabric grocery bags, and re-use most materials that are considered trash. I shop primarily at Thrift stores and only indulge on bigger corporations for household items I can't get used. I have plants. And walk places. I have reduced the amount of meat I eat to a few times a week and/or in small portions. I air dry my hair. I care, way more than most people!

I care, but am always aware of what more I could do, and the effect of not holding myself to that standard is sometimes harsh, and unforgiving. It is hard to eat locally grown self-made meals when you work full time. It is hard to walk everywhere when you live outside an area that has access to everything, because that is where you can afford to live, and so on... These excuses seem weak in writing and even weaker after watching the near torment Colin Beaven and this family went through to completely eliminate their personal impact on the environment for a full year. This meant eating strictly locally grown vegetarian meals, and turning off the refrigerator. It also meant no elevators, television, cars, buses, or airplanes, no toxic cleaning products, no electricity, no material consumption, and no garbage. All of this while raising their 2 year old daughter in the middle of Manhattan. Sounds easy right?! The reality is walking up 9 flights of stairs to get home, no coffee (!), no heater in the frigid New York winter and no air conditioning in the summer. No cosmetics or laundry, and at one point, no toilet paper!

As the months went on, they became more exhausted yet more inspired by the changes they saw in themselves and in their quality of life. One scene struck me, where Colin explained that his feelings of not being connected to anything, of feeling depleted and "unplugged" with the world, had morphed into a beautiful clarity and appreciation for the changing climate and sense of timelessness since he began gardening and eating seasonally.

In my own life, I resent those feelings and immediately felt both sad and relieved that maybe some of the depression I harbor could be blasted away by living a more strict rendition of what I want to be. Going full throttle, instead of letting the guilt and feeling of insurmountable responsibility overwhelm me.

So, I am starting small and solid.
For one week, I am not going to spend a penny on anything. Today is the "prep" day where I am tying up loose ends, the unavoidable few things that I can't ignore: paying a parking ticket and rent, picking up my clothing alterations, filling up on gas, replacing the broken piece on my french press. But after today I am going 7 days without using my debit card or cash, merely by using what I already have, and by reducing the amount I consume. I am both excited and nervous! I want to succeed, I have to, it sounds easy. But I know that in our "working" world, the surroundings in which even most environmentalists spend the majority of their time, is based on quick-fixes and accessibility. Having what we want, at that moment, without regard of the consequences. Low accountability, the lovechild of toxic advertising and instant gratification.

I don't want to disappoint myself, and I thought by sharing this experience I would be less inclined to slip up. So over the next week I will posting daily, and exposing the highs and lows of my time as Low Impact Girl! Care Bear Stare!

Now, rainbows aside, I can't end this without a slight edge of my Feminist nature showing through, yet I sincerely hope it doesn't sour all the positivity I just poured out. I just wanted to mention that in some parts of the film I did feel it was a bit unfairly directed at the wife and her habits, with slight tints of a Patriarchal dictatorship on the husband's behalf. Granted it was "his" project that he "imposed" on his wife, but I would have liked to have seen more of a balanced agreement and/or general development of the experience past "my husband was right" epiphanies. I also felt it was unfair that he set the standards, going as far as throwing out her makeup, at the same time installing a solar panel so he can keep his blog going, and whatever else he utilizes the Internet for... grrrr.

So, on your end, watch it and send me your thoughts!

City Heights is not sexy

2010-11-09T16:37:00.001-08:00

Last Friday night I stumbled upon an awesome exhibition by Photographer John Thurston. As part of Liberty Station's "First Friday" events (happening the first Friday of every month, duh) Barracks 19 is open extended hours as part of an art walkabout that encourages the community to come see what's brewing inside. Upstairs at Bravo School of Art John is part of the various rotating instructors, photography being his specialty. His collection titled City Heights: Primary Colors will be up for the month of November.

A resident of City Heights for over 30 years, his images of surrounding homes and storefronts are colorful and comedic. Some of the images I recognized instantly from my own experiences in the city, which I have called my home for nearly 3 years now. What I really adore about his photographs, and about City heights in general, is the lack of pretentiousness the homes hold, the warmth of sensible family dwelling that is within the utilitarian means of decorating. There are no standards present, no censorship or reasoning past a fundamental desire to make one's home their own, on very little funds. This conjures memories of my youth, where our mismatched furniture was clean, and cozy, mostly disguised under a blanket until company came.

In an article published earlier in the year in the Reader, one resident states "City Heights is not beautiful or sexy… or even all that clean. It has no fancy boutiques or wine bars. Its residents are not trendy or famous. The library is loud and crowded, the traffic annoying, and the number of 99-cent stores exceeds the acceptable limit for any one neighborhood. Then, too, there’s the dog poo, which pedestrians in City Heights have to step around way too often. Despite these minor quirks and inconveniences, the neighborhood has enough flavor, culture, and comforts to hang on to its long-time residents and to draw in the new."

My particular street has been under construction for almost a year now, where an entire "Urban Village" is being built as part of the cities Redevelopment Plan. I think it's beneficial that the area is being developed further, especially if that truly includes affordable housing as projected, and I have no doubt that in a few years it will be the new "North Park," I just hope that all the raw charm about the unassuming streets will not be lost in this process. It's those unique deviations from the neighboring Kensington homes that make being young and poor, worth celebrating.

All Soul's Day Celebration

2010-11-02T11:39:00.000-07:00

The day has finally come! Vintage Religion is hosting a Dia de los Muertos ceremony tonight from 5-9pm. There will be a special lighting for the memorial candles that they generously provided for the community (you just had to send in a photo of your deceased loved one) along with food, music, a muertos face painter, along with a sale on personalized sugar skulls and Mexican artwork.

Today, remember the lives of those you have loved and lost... "To live in hearts we have left behind is not to die" - Thomas Campbell

Stop by after work for some Mexican hot chocolate and see their community altar in person. Also, support a local business that is doing something awesome for others. If you missed out on the free candle this year, bookmark their website to remind yourself for next year.

"From my rotting body, flowers shall grow, and I am in them, and that is eternity"
-Edvard Munch

Lastly, thanks for all the positive feedback on my rOctober series! I am glad that I was able to provide some inspiration and ideas for full enjoyment of the best month of the year. The countdown starts now for Halloween 2011!

xoxo jOisyphene

Dia de los Muertos Festival on Halloween

2010-10-30T17:53:00.000-07:00

The Dia de los Muertos Festival is happening this year at Mission San Luis Rey in Oceanside, tomorrow from 10am-4pm. It is a free event that features a parade, a chalk cemetery, altars and vendors selling Day of the Dead merchandise. There is also a lot of kid-friendly stuff like hands-on crafts and a bean bag toss competition. Sounds like a fun way to spend the day and educate your kids about different cultures and their traditions.

By the way, the sugar skull making class at Vintage Religion was not only fun but informative too. I have the recipe now and even bought the mold, so expect to to attend a class by me next year!

Malice in Wonderland

2010-10-29T11:49:00.001-07:00

Tonight, Halloween malice in wonderland with Maystar's Masquerade Ball downtown! Last chance to get pre-sale tickets, since it may be sold out at the door. Fashion show and Dance party down the rabbit hole at Vin de Syrah, plus lots of curious costumes.

And here, some Annie Leibovitz for Vogue, goodness to get'cha in the mood...

"If I had a world of my own, everything would be nonsense. Nothing would be what it is, because everything would be what it isn't. And contrary wise, what is, it wouldn't be. And what it wouldn't be, it would. You see?" -Alice in Wonderland

Man, do I wish I had this incredible kit by Urban Decay tonight! Sooooo, perfect.

At any rate, see you there!

Modern day Mad Scientist

2010-10-28T11:13:00.000-07:00

"My friend the Witch Doctor, she told me what to do, she said..." You'll never believe this, but gargle cayenne pepper?! I have had a sore throat for several weeks, and it's getting annoying, I've tried everything, except Leah's remedy which I will try today!

This time of year everyone is already sick, getting sick, or just doesn't know it yet. I'd like to introduce The Folk Potion's Blog, created by a local health goddess, Leah Brucker.

If we press rewind and go back to a time before the introduction of the pharmaceutical industry and modern medicine, people and animals made use of the natural resources available to them. In observation of more primitive and wild animals, scientists and indigenous healers alike, find that animals will seek out bitter plants and herbs when ailing because of their inherent antibacterial and antiviral properties. Animals intuitively and miraculously understand how to self-medicate in the wild.

[Folk Potion's] encourages self-responsibility, vigilance, and accountability for our own health by avoiding abuse of prescription drugs, antibiotics, and chemicals if alternative cures exist. Folk and alternative medicine is a safe, healthy, and inexpensive way to to heal our minds and bodies (from website.)

Instead of using over the counter medicines that have their own set of side effects, why not try some alternative forms of health and healing using supplies you may already own and/or techniques that don't require a fee! Check out Folk Potion's for your own remedies, or contact Leah if you have something specific she can give advice for.

Another great tool from my own collection, which costs less than $10.00 and is an everlasting resource, Heal your Body a book by Louise Hay. It offers hundreds of solutions for healing the root/psychological issues beneath some re-occurring health issues in an easy to access A-Z guide. It even comes in an iPhone application that you can purchase for your phone, if you're the techno-hippie type.

Feel well today!

Bread of the Dead

2010-10-27T00:25:00.000-07:00

Pan de Muertos is a Mexican bread traditionally baked in late October/ early November as part of the Dia de los Muertos holiday. Here is a simple recipe to try yourself...

Ingredients:

1 1/2 cups of flour
1/2 cup sugar
1 teaspoon of salt
1 tablespoon of anise seed
2 tablespoons of orange blossom water (can be substituted for the anise seeds to add flavor)
2 packets of dry yeast
1/2 cup of milk
1/2 cup water
1/2 cup of butter
4 eggs3-4 1/2 cups of additional flour
confectioner's sugar or colored sugar (optional)

Directions:

1. Mix all dry ingredients together except the 3-4 1/2 cups of flour

2. In a small pan, heat the milk, the water, and the butter. Add the liquid mixture to the dry mixture.

3. Beat well.

4. Mix in the eggs and 1 1/2 cups of flour. Beat well.

5. Put in the rest of the flour, little by little.

6. Knead the mixture on a floured board for 9 - 10 minutes.

7. Put the dough in a greased bowl and allow it to rise until it has doubled in size (about an hour and a half).

8. Punch the dough down and reshape it as bones or easy shapes like hearts, or bones, or if you have molds you can use those to make skulls and/or just form medium sized round balls.

9. Let it rise another hour.

10. Bake at 350 degrees for about 40 minutes.

11. After baking, sprinkle it with confectioner's sugar and/or colored sugar.

If you are like me, with a tendency to burn things, you can just pick up an already made Pan de Muertos at Con Pane in Point Loma inside Liberty Station. They are baking loafs October 29th through November 2nd, and like all their other brioche's, are delicious, filling and affordable.

Ode to Olive

2010-10-26T11:24:00.000-07:00

Not just during the fall, but year 'round, in my choice of clothes and decor I generally like jewel tones that are infected with a bit of dirt, hues that are slightly darker that could potentially come from the earth. Strangely, most of my favorites are named after foods: eggplant, avocado, mustard and olive to name a few. Maybe I find warmth from the moodier tones and/or am subconsciously trying to mask the fact that I live in a desert!

Here are some crave-able color combination's using Olive green that makes me especially happy.

Olive with Teal/ Blue

Olive Trees with the Alpilles in the background- Vincent van Gogh 1889

Olive with Gray/ Charcoal

I want, no NEED a window seat

Olive with Red

Tiny Robot bell jars, cute!

Olive with Chocolate Brown

Cluttered, but inviting

Olive with White or Oatmeal

Paired with cube's for a vintage vibe office space

Olive with Mustard Yellow

I love how an abandoned pallet becomes re-purposed into a plate rack.
The raw wood tones with the mustard plates feels very organic. Just watch out for splinters, right?!

Olive with Fuchsia

Pink, probably my favorite

Olive with Black & White

Love this buttoned couch, very classy

Olive with Purple/ Plum/ Eggplant

Purple and gold makes it pop

Olive with Orange/ Rust/ Burnt Umber

I love this living room, which must be inspired by van Gogh's palate in this olive tree painting
(but would definitely add a rug in there to warm it up)

Try adding some olive to your home this fall. It's a surprising neutral color that looks great with just about any color, but if you get stuck, use the suggestions above.

Rocky Horror Picture show's at La Paloma

2010-10-25T15:53:00.000-07:00

This is the last Friday to see the Rocky Horror Picture Show at the La Paloma Theatre in Encinitas. If you haven't gone already, you've missed out on their lingerie night (sounds fun) but you have several extra chances to go this weekend. The movie is showing at 9pm and Midnight Friday through Sunday, and costs $10.00. FYI, this theatre is old and operates accordingly, with somewhat shotty audio and picture, and inability to take credit cards. It makes up for it in character though, since it originally opened in 1928.

While you're there, check out a weird shop down the street called Coast Highway Trader's. Half souvenir shop, half authentic imports, they've got some great Day of the Dead-wares at prices comparable to Mexico's. There is also a Flashback's a couple doors down if you are still looking for a last minute costume...

Return to Oz & Penner

2010-10-22T11:42:00.000-07:00

Return to Oz, one of my favorite films of all time, continues to inspire and delight me after all these years. Fairuza Balk in her first ever role plays Dorothy, mentally affected from her return to the normal world after her exposure to Oz. Her family eventually takes her to a psychotherapist who administers electric-shock treatments in an eerie facility that looks more like a dungeon than a hospital. During a huge storm she manages to escape and awakes to find herself back in Oz, which has deteriorated drastically since she was there last. Her journey takes her to creepy characters such as the Wheeler's, Mombi, the witch with ever-changing heads, dancing women frozen to stone, in addition to new slightly deranged side kicks that help her along the way.

This film is packed with magical scenes, with beautiful landscape shots of a decayed Emerald City, fantasy characters in elaborate dress, and all the traditional key players in a new, darker and more disturbed setting. I was delighted to discover an artist that seems to share the same subtle appreciation. Alia Penner creates photography, illustrations and design that feel like extended frames from Return to Oz.

Carriage ride into town

Lost Girls 2006

Dorothy at the Institution

3D Bed 2009

Statues with the Wheeler's & city of ruins

Mystical Animal Collection 2009

Mombi, the witch

Bandstand 2008

Ozma and Dorothy

Belles of Black Diamond Field

Spell 2009

The lunch tree (one of my favorite things)

Imagine our love still 2008

The ride to Emerald City

Success 2009

The Yellow Brick Road

Lauren 2007

An exceptional movie, and an inspirational artist. Hope you enjoy!

Well, Frock You Too!

2010-10-21T16:05:00.000-07:00

Another amazing sidewalk sale happening today through Sunday only, at Frock You Vintage on Park ave. This time featuring TaTa Lane with costumes galore, and two other guest vendors bringing more retro goodies at discount prices. Bring cash!

Vintage Religion hosts festive craft classes

2010-10-20T05:35:00.000-07:00

Vintage Religion is a cute little shop located just behind the newly opened Fresh and Easy store in North Park. For the remaining month of October they are hosting some fun classes that will get you in the mood for the upcoming Dia de los Muertos holiday.

Sugar Skull Making Workshops

Saturday's (2pm - 4pm) October 16, 23 & 30

Thursday's (6pm - 8pm) October 28

Sunday's (2pm - 4pm) October 24

$20.00: In this workshop you will receive a short lecture on the customs of Dia de Los Muertos and the symbolism of the sugar skull. This "hands on" class allows you to prepare the sugar mixture, mold, assemble and decorate a sugar skull. Each student will leave with a completed skull they have decorated. Taught by Ana Ibarra and Maryann Luera.

Masters Sugar Skull Workshop

Thursday, October 21 (6:00pm - 8:00pm)

$40.00: In this advanced Sugar Skull Making class students will be decorating an extra large Oaxacan Sugar skull with rhinestones, sequins, pearls and semi precious stones. Each participant will leave with a one-of-a-kind art piece that they have created. All of the materials are supplied by the instructors (Maryann Luera and Ana Ibarra). Students are welcome to bring their own stones, jewelry, etc to embellish their skull.

Altar Making Class

Friday, October 29 (6:00pm - 8:00pm)

$50.00: In this class we will be discussing the meaning and importance of altars or shrines as they pertain to Day of the Dead. Each person will assemble and get to take home a mini version of an altar, using as a model the traditional ones constructed in Mexican homes and cemeteries. We will provide the altar base as well as a variety of miniature items to decorate and embellish with. Feel free to bring your own items to personalize it.

For more events and info, click on October (above) for the full calendar!

El Camino, not just a bitchin' ride

2010-10-19T12:12:00.000-07:00

Last night I went out to my favorite local restaurant in South Park, the Dia de los Muertos themed El Camino. Since opening last year I have been a few times, but have yet to visit their other location in Little Italy. This place rules for several reasons:

Awesome decor! Every inch is covered with something to look at, and if you're into the Day of the Dead this place will tickle your fancy. Murals on every wall...

A trippy holographic Mary art piece... (that after a few margarita's can be nauseating to watch)

An altar with handmade sugar skulls right outside los bano's, which has silver glittered floors by the way (and looks like a galaxy when you pee, hehe)

And plenty of Spanish lingo to learn, written even on the ceilings.

Besides the decorations, they have great food at affordable prices. Starting with a tray full of 6 different salsas to try, and authentic jicima with chile and lime, their menu has an appreciated variety of vegetarian meals and traditional Mexican favorites. I love their sweet potato flautas, which are sweet and spicy. (I did not get any photos of the food because we pretty much scarfed it down) but between their sopa de Fideo (soup), and Nachos El Camino, there were no complaints.

They also have an adorable bar area that is small but cozy, with vintage buttoned bar stools I want to take home with me.

They don't offer a full bar variety, but the select drinks they have are pretty nice, could be a little stronger but it makes up for it by being served in a boot glass!

I love this place year round, but during October it tends to be much busier than usual, so if you go just beware you may have to wait a little longer than usual for service. Totally worth it though for good food and a good time. Plus, the Whistle Stop is right across the street and has free events during the week like trivia night and my favorite, Booty Bassment! Great date night activities, if you ask me.... especially if you show up in one of these bad boys.

The Unicorn Bar: 5 Stars & Stripes

2010-10-18T14:23:00.000-07:00

When it rains in San Diego I always think of Seattle Washington, where the climate encourages sweater vests and cardigans, things like buckled shoes and layers. I am jealous of the thriving green of the area, the moss and vines smothered over decaying city buildings and trees, on top of trees, on top of more trees. Some with technicolor leaves, (what a concept). Besides the lush environment, I enjoy the culture of the living there, and often wish San Diego had half the treasures I have found in the short time I have spent up North. One of my favorite "5 star" finds, is the Unicorn Bar located in Capitol Hill.

Inside it's striped exterior it feels like the circus has come to town, but isn't leaving anytime soon! There are more stripes, taxidermist horned animals hanging off the wall, and several ornate chandeliers. The bar area looks like a carousel car, paused just long enough to serve you a stiff one before wheeling on. (Thank God it doesn't actually turn, I have been to the famous rotating bar in Vegas- from Fear & Loathing, and it was terrifying).

More so, their drinks are packed to punch with yummy, unique names suited to fit the Equestrian theme.

This is the Hellicorn, a delicious blend of Fireball whisky and ginger beer! Since going I have found the Aero club in San Diego serves Fireball as well, love it.

Lots of inappropriately delicious cocktails on the menu, in addition to snacks like Narwhal Balls and Fried Cornichorn's....

The venue is something magical, and I wish I could transport myself up there whenever I am having a bad day. I highly recommended at least stopping by if you ever visit the Capitol Hill area of Seattle, but the next best thing (and more affordable) is getting the look yourself.

Sunset magazine offers an easy to follow tutorial on "striping" your walls at home. Maybe pink and green aren't your thing, but it is a nice guide to refer to in general if you want to paint an accent piece of furniture or add some wainscoting to your home. Paired with a Victrola or over sized bottle of peacock feathers, you are halfway there.

Make your own Pomander Ball

2010-10-16T12:18:00.000-07:00

Pomander Balls were the deodorant of the Medieval times, and also believed to be a form of protection. During the Tudor times, townspeople believed "bad smells" carried illnesses and hence carrying a something "good smelling" would protect them from death. Some pomander balls were made primarily out of oranges and cloves, and tied to the undercarriage of women's dresses and/or in closets, and other smaller ones were sometimes in the form of beads made out of spices held together by gum.

I think today they combine some of the best scents of the season, and make nice gifts. For about $15 you can make a few aromatic additions to your home that last a long time.

You will need:

* At least 1 ounce of whole cloves, usually found on the spice isle. These run about $8-$10 for a jar of around 50 grams
* Thin-skinned oranges, on the small side
* Ground cinnamon, or other spices like Nutmeg (just a little will do, a small container is fine)
* Some sort of poking needle to pierce the skin of the orange (I used a tiny screw driver)
*Ribbon (optional)

Gizmo can't resist the ribbon

Directions:

1. First start by deciding if you want to make a hanging ball or one you will sit in potpourri or a bowl. If you opt for a hanging ball, you will want to attach the ribbon first. I have seen others use tape first to reserve the area where the ribbon can be tied after everything is complete (so that the ribbon doesn't get dirty) so if you want to take that extra step that's fine too. I prefer to tie the ribbon first so that I don't take the tops of the cloves off trying to do so at the end.

2. Next, pierce the skin of the orange using the needle to make inserting the cloves a little easier. You will want to leave the cloves with a little distance between them because once the orange dries up it will shrink, bringing the cloves in tighter (the drying process for the orange takes several weeks.)

3. Start by filling in the cloves one portion at a time, stem side down. The bulbs should stick out of the orange, with the sharp ends inside.

It's important to get the Whole Cloves, so that the pointy stems are still attached

I sprinkled cinnamon onto the cloves first so that when the stems are inserted into the fruit, the juice from the orange holds the scents together and acts as a natural glue once dry.

4. Continue to insert the cloves, rotating it as you go, until the entire orange is covered. Sometimes when the tops fall off of the clove stems, they can be sharp, so be careful if you are doing this activity with kids. You can use a thimble if the skin is too tough and you have to really shove them in there to get them to stay. If you use the needle first though, it should make it a lot easier.

When you are finished, tie the end of the ribbon into a bow, using the leftover string to form a circle that can be hooked onto wherever you hang it from.

Completed Pomander Ball

5. Experts say you are supposed to let the orange dry out in a dark area for 2-4 weeks before it is completely ready. I think you might as well enjoy it while it is curing, so if you don't put it in your closet you can also stick it in your kitchen, or bathroom. If you decided to make one without the ribbon, you could also opt to make several and put them out in a bowl. If they start to loose their scent you could then toss them in more cinnamon or a mix of your favorite dried herbs to spice them up again. (I have also heard using Orris Root powder in your spice blend, in addition to coating the orange with lemon juice before starting will help preserve the Pomander Ball even longer.)

Although a primitive tradition, Pomander Balls are still useful today and make great festive gifts from October through December. It's also a fun alternative to carving pumpkins with your family and friends.

MayStar Parties

2010-10-15T10:46:00.000-07:00

Tonight at U-31 if you're not doing anything... also, on the 29th an Alice in Wonderland Masquerade Ball!

10 Costume Tips (from a self proclaimed expert!)

2010-10-13T21:53:00.000-07:00

Take no offense if you find yourself in this category. But every year when Halloween rolls around I see countless people wearing the same exact costume, at the same bars/events as other people, wearing the same exact store bought thing. This has in fact happened to me when one year I wore a Wonder Woman costume I was stoked to find (granted I did customize it a bit...)

Of course I would much rather see people dressed up, than in nothing at all (wet blankets) but this year I am making myself even more available for help in this situation. I have not one, but ten suggestions on how to save money and come up with a cool costume this year, without even stepping foot in a mall.

1. Brainstorm! It helps to have an idea, or a few idea's of what you may want to be/do before you start the hunt. That way you can organize your search to specific items and/or keep an eye out for a few essentials while you are out and about. You never know when or where you may score something perfect. It also helps to Google images of that thing/person to take note of what would make it easy to recognize or stand out. Take these pictures with you on your search! (And, if you already look like someone famous, just go with that... it always works)

Some girl at the bar that looked (and acted) just like Amy Winehouse

Sara and her date as Rogue and Wolverine

2. Shop second hand! This time of year most thrift stores are packed with discarded costumes and weird remnants that you can use to create your own. This is also when they scour their stock for all those funky, retro items that maybe are a bit too dated for most people (to me, this is an ideal time to shop in general.) If you don't have an idea to begin with, you may get inspired just by going through some racks, and end up with something clever that only cost a few bucks. Here is a great resource to keep on hand, a pretty extensive list of second hand stores throughout San Diego County.

Front and back photos of a dress I found a week ago at a Salvation Army for less than $10. I bought it because my sister was searching for a Marie Antoinette costume, and this had all the features. For a few extra dollars it is going to be altered to fit her perfectly, and with all her accessories will look flawless. 80's prom dress= Baroque Queen for a fraction of the price.

3. Re-use an old costume by re-purposing it into something new. My sister's friend did this one year when she bought this "wet t-shirt costume" (so, so gross in my opinion) but the next year she turned it into "Beth" from Dog the Bounty Hunter's t.v. show for my party. Thank God.

4. Make your own, using cheap materials and your brain. Cardboard is easy to come by, easy to mold and attach to things, and easy to paint. Here are some of my favorite cardboard creations...

Dave, as the "The Cedar Fires" a few years ago

A robot dancing with a Teenage Mutant Ninga Turtle (turtle power) at the Whistle Stop. The head was paper mache actually, another easy material to play with.

5. Use what you already have! Some original idea's are probably already hiding out in your closet, in the clothes pushed towards the back and/or maybe on your partner's side. Try to look objectively at you have, like what it reminds you of or where you may have seen something like it on someone else, or in a different decade, in a movie or book, etc. Or, see if you can borrow something from a friend, as long as you make sure to return it in the same condition.

Leah, as a character from Hitchcock's 1963 classic The Bird's, using some of her already owned vintage clothes

My friends Marian and Barb, as a "Tree" and "David the Gnome", both hand made costumes using mostly items out of their closet, with a few custom accessories.

Katie (in her mother-in-law's old carrot costume from the 70's), Marie as Jackie O and Annie as Frida Kahlo, both in already owned clothes.

6. If you know how to sew and/or an artist, this is your time to shine. Spend a weekend, or a few hours a week putting together something you are proud of. You may have a ton of materials hanging around that aren't being used, so well, now is the time to use them. Get creative!

This amazing costume was made by my friend Matt, who literally created a life size replica of one of his own comic characters from a bunch of materials. You cannot see it but the "eye" actually lit up with the help from one of those push-top lights.

Here some friends made costumes from material purchased at a local fabric store. The Bjork costume was spot on, and made from a white dress with a stuffed swan neck that was just stitched together.

7. Pick a pair: C'mon be cutesy! Couple costumes are the best, and when you share the cost between two people, it's half the price and double points for creativity.

Jedi warriors

The Walker's as Frankenstein and Scientist

We did not plan this, but Felicia showed up as Frankie to the same dance that I came as the Bride of Frankenstein! People wanted photos of us together all night, it was fun.

Another unexpected "couple costume" happened when Sarah Palin showed up at the same party as John McCain. Although Autumn and Ian aren't a real life couple, it was fun to have them both campaigning the same room! (Maybe a good way to meet your match if you're single, would be to show up as one part of a pair, and see what happens.)

8. Safety in numbers: If you aren't having any luck on your own, find a few friends to go in on a group costume with. When there's more than one of something, it doesn't necessarily have to be perfect to work. Pick something easy, and stick together. See how the zombie's (at the top of the post) worked it out with some $5.00 bloody makeup and tattered clothing, made by just a little mirror time and fun with scissors.

9. Focus on the Makeup alone. People will always notice your face first, so if you devote most of your time and effort to decorating up top, you can get away with saving a lot of money on a detailed costume, and still create an awesome look.

Kristel's entire"corpse bride" costume was creepy and complete, this is just an example of how a successful makeup job scan be created using mostly stuff that you already own.

Here Jackie did such a unique job mimicking Captain Jack Sparrow that the rest of the costume could have been anything. She bought the wig and 'stache, but the rest was hand-done.

10. The last thing that I have to add is that if you look this cute already, I have no problem with you wearing a generic costume!

One of my favorite people, Mary as "Dorothy"

Just, if you have to buy new, at least make it ironic or something funny... So, good luck, happy hunting and make me proud!

Chi Chocolat

2010-10-13T12:21:00.000-07:00

This ghoul appeared in my hazelnut mocha today, totally by accident! It started out as a frothy top and after a few moments of neglect, I came back to this. So strange and funny at the same time!

Anyhow, I wanted to blog about a small business I have kinda been obsessed with since they relocated right next to the gallery I work at. Chi Chocolat used to be in Little Italy and is now at Liberty Station, much to my delight. They are a locally owned and operated chocolate factory, with the best coffee I have ever had. Seriously, I can't even go into Starbucks anymore (which I did begrudgingly for years for the convenience of it. Now, I can't be bothered with that nonsense!)
Some of my favorites include their champagne truffles, (which are dusted with pink sugar), the "Joaquin", which is made with Bourbon whiskey, and their raspberry Pink Peppercorn treats that have pieces of real pink peppercorns on top, straight off the tree.

Coffee-wise: Jesse, the charming Owner/Chocolatier makes the best concoctions. I am decidedly obsessed with the Vietnamese coffee, which is basically an Americano with condensed milk. The recipe comes from his wife's family, who traditionally uses a sweet condensed milk in cooking. I prefer it iced, and he makes it strong so that the sweetness does not overpower the lovely bean flavor.

This time of year, a good coffee with a side of dark chocolate dipped madeleine's makes for the perfect treat. Stop by their little shop if you are in the Point Loma area, I guarantee you won't be disappointed!

Creative Costumes as an Art Form

2010-10-12T17:25:00.000-07:00

Kudos to these creepers who put together some stellar Halloween costumes, completely unlike any other!

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Zombie Bride

Kurt Cobain, post-Mortem

Paper Head

Shepard Fairy's Obama

Liechtenstein's muse

Low Resolution Girl

Free Movie: Carnival of Souls

2010-10-11T09:09:00.000-07:00

Save the Date: this Wednesday Night at 6:30pm the San Diego Public Library is participating in their monthly free movie screening by showing Carnival of Souls, a low budget horror film made in the 60's.
After originally bringing in little money, this flick has become somewhat of a cult classic, based on it's "special effects" and organ score by Gene Moore.

The auditorium is located inside the Central Library (Downtown) on the 3rd floor, and operates on a first come, first serve basis.

(On a side note, as of July 2010 this Library has been approved to be completely re-constructed, so if nothing else, come see all the beautiful old features of a real Library before it turns into a new corporate looking establishment)

Bloodbath McGrath

2010-10-10T11:36:00.000-07:00

Elizabeth McGrath is a Los Angeles based artist that I have been following since High School, when I first discovered her creepy sculptures and diorama's which inspired some of my own playful shadow boxes over the years. The construction between topics such as marriage, family, and bodies, juxtaposed with the slimy underside of the reality within them, makes for intricately morbid moments of truth displayed almost like frozen nightmares. Her use of catholic symbols, animals in human dress, and an almost child-like frosting over it all, reminds me of a storybook that takes a dark turn and/or a fragile mind being exposed to life, far too soon, and probably in/around a butcher's shop.

For this reason, she is an ideal Artist to showcase as part of my Ode to October.

Truth Decay

Schwein Haben

In the year of the Pig Fish

Thimble Riggers

Deer House

Frankie Machine

The Vampirates

Stuff 'N Thangs on Saturday Night

2010-10-08T22:00:00.000-07:00

Tonight at Agitprop, local artist Joe Yorty shows some of his recent work. I am looking forward to this event not only because it follows a Poetry reading (by poets Farrah Field and Jared White), but because you never know what Joe will come up with next.

Some of his work includes a Free Couch archive, that includes over 20,000 photographs taken off Craigslist that he has distinctively organized into a library of 7 volumes, in booklets that are handmade.

Another favorite of mine is the E.T. project, where 120 ceramic E.T. figures were slip cast over a 10-month period from a single plaster mold he purchased from a second-hand store in 2009. Once glazed and serialized The E.T.s were then circulated through donation to area thrift stores where they were priced, shelved and sold to the public. I collected my own E.T earlier in the year at the 2nd annual Thrift Store Bike Tour!

(My face does not reflect my sheer joy at finally owning one, but I think it was the heat, honestly)

This occasion precedes Joe's birthday by a few weeks, which happens to be on Halloween! Come enjoy work worth seeing, at Agitprop space in North Park, at 7pm. After tonight, you'll have to make an appointment with this guy to see it!

Folk Friday's

2010-10-08T13:52:00.000-07:00

Happy Friday! Enjoy my favorite folk musician, Alela Diane. (Special thanks to Darci for introducing me to her music, and allowing me the pleasure to meet this beautiful songbird in person!) Alela's blog is lovely too, check out Wanders & Stillness for all sorts of inside stuff.

Save the date: Pumpkins at the Pearl Thursday October 21st

2010-10-07T16:39:00.000-07:00

The Pearl Hotel is getting into the Halloween spirit and hosting their 2nd annual pumpkin carving extravaganza on Thursday, October 21 from 8:30 pm to 11:00pm! They supply the pumpkins and tools, but if you have your own snazzy tools, they encourage you to bring those, too! Happy hour specials and festive movies on the Dive-In Screen are on all night, and are a guaranteed fun way to get into the Holiday spirit!

The prizes for the best carvings are as follows:
1st- Free night stay the The Pearl
2nd - Happy Hour for 20 people. One drink per person!
3rd - Bistro Monday gift certificate for two people

Please RSVP to The Pearl
More info here

Pumpkins from my own carving contest last year...

1st place: Kristel's double sided Leto-Cat Pumpkin
2nd place: Marie's classic Jack
3rd place: Sarah's Vampire Villain
(mine is the attempt at an Owl)

Hope to see you there!